{"id":935,"date":"2021-11-12T14:10:00","date_gmt":"2021-11-12T14:10:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/cogitateandpercolate.com\/?p=935"},"modified":"2026-06-29T14:06:37","modified_gmt":"2026-06-29T14:06:37","slug":"6-days-a-week-part-4-of-5-keeping-work-in-its-place","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/cogitateandpercolate.com\/?p=935","title":{"rendered":"6 Days A Week &#8211; Part 4 of 5 Keeping work in its place"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/blogger.googleusercontent.com\/img\/a\/AVvXsEg8aTga5k403dyIA8FcT3wLsFKzcQ-PeLiI7Q1lEQAWvrZ__9xyj2j18nxXONtMdotrxZHOoXETqSFD6GirnXqqB-UF9DImPH5sc9uD7Wnc6rbgogtV0oKXHl051rOF4SRFw2JsQAhMW9p-_7F8sm3_v_wofpgaHgxlJCM-4ac8LpMKYXHYaWM7kVQd=w640-h426\" style=\"margin-left: 1em;margin-right: 1em\"><img decoding=\"async\" border=\"0\" data-original-height=\"720\" data-original-width=\"1080\" height=\"426\" data-src=\"https:\/\/blogger.googleusercontent.com\/img\/a\/AVvXsEg8aTga5k403dyIA8FcT3wLsFKzcQ-PeLiI7Q1lEQAWvrZ__9xyj2j18nxXONtMdotrxZHOoXETqSFD6GirnXqqB-UF9DImPH5sc9uD7Wnc6rbgogtV0oKXHl051rOF4SRFw2JsQAhMW9p-_7F8sm3_v_wofpgaHgxlJCM-4ac8LpMKYXHYaWM7kVQd=w640-h426\" width=\"640\" src=\"data:image\/svg+xml;base64,PHN2ZyB3aWR0aD0iMSIgaGVpZ2h0PSIxIiB4bWxucz0iaHR0cDovL3d3dy53My5vcmcvMjAwMC9zdmciPjwvc3ZnPg==\" class=\"lazyload\" style=\"--smush-placeholder-width: 640px; --smush-placeholder-aspect-ratio: 640\/426;\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<div class=\"separator\" style=\"clear: both;text-align: center\"><\/div>\n<div class=\"separator\" style=\"clear: both;text-align: center\"><\/div>\n<div class=\"separator\" style=\"clear: both;text-align: left\">\n<div class=\"reader-article-content\">\n<p>This is the fourth article in a series about <b>keeping work in its place<\/b>.<br \/>\n As a reminder: emails are equivalent to messaging and I&#8217;m specifically<br \/>\nreferring to work situations involving remote teachers and students in<br \/>\neducational contexts.<\/p>\n<p>I wish this story had a happy ending.&nbsp;But it<br \/>\n doesn\u2019t.&nbsp;This was a direct report of mine that did spectacular work.<br \/>\nShe was a gem of an instructor; I&#8217;ll call her Gem for this story.&nbsp;She<br \/>\ngave me great feedback that I implemented with other hires. <\/p>\n<p>But I lost her. I lost her to burnout.<\/p>\n<p>Very<br \/>\n early on in the hiring process, I made sure that I emphasized that I<br \/>\nwas hiring for 5-days-a-week schedules.&nbsp;I would say specifically \u201c5<br \/>\ndays, not 6, not 7.\u201d&nbsp; Sometimes I\u2019d meet a traditional faculty candidate<br \/>\n transitioning to online who would tell me that they provided their<br \/>\nmobile phone number to their students because &#8212;<i>and they would always say this like they were a saint<\/i>&#8212;<br \/>\n that way they could help the student anytime.&nbsp;I didn\u2019t advance them in<br \/>\nthe hiring process. What they thought was excellent customer service<br \/>\nactually told me that <u>they didn\u2019t have self control<\/u>.&nbsp;Further,<br \/>\nthey couldn\u2019t see themselves as part of team, relinquishing control to<br \/>\nothers, trusting others, and the environment that they were applying to<br \/>\nwas about to go so fast and so intense, that it would eat them up.<\/p>\n<p>(True<br \/>\n story: Once I sat in a focus group of new online faculty hires and they<br \/>\n reported how surprised they were with how much they felt <b>tied to their laptops<\/b>.&nbsp;<br \/>\n \u201cTied\u201d was the actual word they used.&nbsp; The Vice President running that<br \/>\nfocus group knew I was sitting in the group.&nbsp; He turned to me and asked<br \/>\n\u201cHave you ever felt tied to your laptop?\u201d&nbsp;\u201cNever\u201d I said a bit<br \/>\nbreathlessly because I was wondering what the new hires were doing so<br \/>\nwrong to be &#8220;tied.&#8221;&nbsp; But that was because I knew how to keep work in its<br \/>\n place.)<\/p>\n<p>So this faculty member Gem was leaving a few clues<br \/>\naround.&nbsp; First, I had hired her for a 5 days a week Monday &#8211; Friday<br \/>\nschedule (within those 5 days, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.linkedin.com\/pulse\/so-you-want-work-wgu-faculty-heather-dodds\" target=\"_blank\">we also asked faculty to work 10 hours that were \u201cstudent-facing\u201d<\/a><br \/>\n which meant that they had to be hours where students could reasonably<br \/>\nmeet with the faculty member&#8230;this usually meant 2 evenings per week.<br \/>\nThe other 30 hours could be at more faculty convenient times.)&nbsp;I saw<br \/>\nemails from her to her others with time stamps of Saturday or Sunday.&nbsp;<br \/>\nLater on, I became famous for my checking of time stamps&#8230;my direct<br \/>\nreports actually learned to use \u201cdelayed send\u201d if they didn\u2019t want to<br \/>\nget caught overworking.<\/p>\n<p>I asked her about those time stamps. \u201cWhy did you&nbsp;feel the need to answer So-And-So on Saturday?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cOh, I have my laptop open on the kitchen table.&nbsp;So I saw the email come in and I wanted to help her.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u2018Laptop on the kitchen table\u2019 told me that:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>She<br \/>\n wasn\u2019t always working from a space that encouraged professional<br \/>\nbehavior.&nbsp; We firmly asked employees to provide \u201cdedicated home office<br \/>\nspace\u201d that reflected a professional atmosphere with our students.<br \/>\n#NoBedsInTheBackgroundPlease  Even though she obviously was not on<br \/>\ncamera to answer an email, she didn&#8217;t separate work from home.<\/li>\n<li>Working<br \/>\n from a non-ergonomically planned space could bring on problems like<br \/>\ncarpal tunnel syndrome or back pain. When you don\u2019t work at a desk, I<br \/>\nworry about a compensation claim.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>I was already worried.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI\u2019d<br \/>\n prefer if you don\u2019t check email when you are not at work. While I<br \/>\nappreciate your dedication to our students, this probably could have<br \/>\nwaited.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>A few more months went by. I see the timestamp problem<br \/>\nagain and it is discussed around the team.&nbsp; I had another private<br \/>\nconversation with her.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI need you to work when you are supposed to be working. I need you to<b> not work<\/b> when you are<b> not supposed to be working<\/b>.<br \/>\n It\u2019s very important that you get rest and get away from work because<br \/>\nthen, when you come back to work, you are happier, more productive, and<br \/>\ncan help more students.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Her response&#8211; a peel of laughter&#8211;the \u2018mad scientist\u2019 kind.&nbsp; She said: <\/p>\n<blockquote><p>\u201cYou don\u2019t understand!&nbsp;<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<blockquote><p>I <i>like<\/i> helping students!\u201d<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>Uh-oh. I was up against the \u201cwhat could <i><u>ever<\/u><\/i> be wrong with helping a student?\u201d argument.&nbsp; It was the #EducationIsAnInsatiableMonster rearing its head.<\/p>\n<p>I<br \/>\n said \u201cI\u2019m very serious.&nbsp;When you work on your days off, I get very<br \/>\nconcerned.&nbsp;The next stop on this train is burnout.&nbsp;At burnout, <b>you help no students<\/b>.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>She<br \/>\n ignored me and kept going.&nbsp;I started trying to figure out how to word<br \/>\nthis problem for her written performance review. I\u2019d given her two<br \/>\nverbal warnings so it was time to up my rhetoric.<\/p>\n<p>It ends up, I didn\u2019t have to.<\/p>\n<p>She called me one day.&nbsp; She said \u201cI\u2019m resigning.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Stunned, I said \u201cWhy?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>She answered, \u201cBecause I want to spend more time with my daughters.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>I screamed into the phone, \u201cThat\u2019s funny, <b>because I wanted you to spend more time with your daughters too.&nbsp; Only, I wanted to PAY you to do that<\/b>. And I wanted you to be able to tell your daughters that Mommy is a Full Professor. Now you won\u2019t!\u201d<\/p>\n<p>No, I didn\u2019t scream that into the phone.<\/p>\n<p>I<br \/>\n accepted her resignation and wished her well. But ever since that day,<br \/>\nI\u2019ve known&#8230;she never learned the lesson I was trying to teach.&nbsp;She<br \/>\nburned herself out.&nbsp;She\u2019ll do it to herself again in other jobs.<\/p>\n<div class=\"slate-resizable-image-embed slate-image-embed__resize-full-width\"><\/div>\n<p>If you like my article series, you might want to check this out: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.wbur.org\/hereandnow\/2021\/10\/05\/career-job-work-identity\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">You are not your job: Writer Arthur Brooks on why careers shouldn&#8217;t dictate your identity<\/a><\/p>\n<p><\/p>\n<p>This was the article that started this series: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.edutopia.org\/article\/defending-teachers-right-disconnect\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Defending a Teacher&#8217;s Right To Disconnect<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Article 1 <a href=\"https:\/\/www.linkedin.com\/pulse\/i-am-woman-who-did-check-her-emailand-lived-heather-dodds\" target=\"_blank\">I am the woman who did not check her email and lived.<\/a><\/p>\n<p>Article 2: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.linkedin.com\/pulse\/you-replied-too-quickly-heather-dodds\" target=\"_blank\">You replied too quickly!<\/a><\/p>\n<p>Article 3: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.linkedin.com\/pulse\/im-going-camping-heather-dodds\" target=\"_blank\">I&#8217;m going camping!<\/a><\/p>\n<p>Article 5 will be: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.linkedin.com\/pulse\/measuring-remote-team-productivity-when-all-goes-wrong-heather-dodds\" target=\"_blank\">Measuring Remote Team Productivity or What Happens When It All Goes Wrong<\/a><\/p>\n<p>#KeepWorkInItsPlace<br \/>\n #RemoteWork #TimeManagement #SelfControl<br \/>\n#EducationIsAnInsatiableMonster #Working6DaysAWeek #Leadership #Success<br \/>\n#Failure #Management #Email #Burnout<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p>This article originally posted to LinkedIn on October 7, 2021<\/p><\/div>\n<div class=\"separator\" style=\"clear: both;text-align: left\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.linkedin.com\/pulse\/6-days-week-heather-dodds\/\">https:\/\/www.linkedin.com\/pulse\/6-days-week-heather-dodds\/<\/a><\/div>\n<p><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<div class=\"entry-summary\">\n&nbsp; This is the fourth article in a series about keeping work in its place. 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