{"id":1040,"date":"2021-11-08T17:28:00","date_gmt":"2021-11-08T17:28:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/cogitateandpercolate.com\/?p=1040"},"modified":"2026-06-29T14:09:06","modified_gmt":"2026-06-29T14:09:06","slug":"find-your-dragon-slayer","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/cogitateandpercolate.com\/?p=1040","title":{"rendered":"Find Your Dragon Slayer"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<table align=\"center\" cellpadding=\"0\" cellspacing=\"0\" class=\"tr-caption-container\" style=\"margin-left: auto;margin-right: auto\">\n<tbody>\n<tr>\n<td style=\"text-align: center\"><a href=\"https:\/\/blogger.googleusercontent.com\/img\/a\/AVvXsEgN9BU-s9OdOUSFH-bu1ZsSydV8y-jbS99gg4z7QQNWc2UtwN_5rDCaLaRqzeiykSqz3l5nxpNnpWIp9TuX97HFJkmvLC4asWx30hhRli2Br4BHU2aS9s2WF4aMvB9BNl9DDAUS2p362ovMKKcvwK_JaLywfwopOhy1IyOeXSfi6CYfXauPl3_PVeNv=w640-h454\" style=\"margin-left: auto;margin-right: auto\"><img decoding=\"async\" border=\"0\" data-original-height=\"426\" data-original-width=\"600\" height=\"454\" data-src=\"https:\/\/blogger.googleusercontent.com\/img\/a\/AVvXsEgN9BU-s9OdOUSFH-bu1ZsSydV8y-jbS99gg4z7QQNWc2UtwN_5rDCaLaRqzeiykSqz3l5nxpNnpWIp9TuX97HFJkmvLC4asWx30hhRli2Br4BHU2aS9s2WF4aMvB9BNl9DDAUS2p362ovMKKcvwK_JaLywfwopOhy1IyOeXSfi6CYfXauPl3_PVeNv=w640-h454\" width=\"640\" src=\"data:image\/svg+xml;base64,PHN2ZyB3aWR0aD0iMSIgaGVpZ2h0PSIxIiB4bWxucz0iaHR0cDovL3d3dy53My5vcmcvMjAwMC9zdmciPjwvc3ZnPg==\" class=\"lazyload\" style=\"--smush-placeholder-width: 640px; --smush-placeholder-aspect-ratio: 640\/454;\" \/><\/a><\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<tr>\n<td class=\"tr-caption\" style=\"text-align: center\"><span style=\"font-family: helvetica\">Reign of Fire. (2002) Image soruce: moviestillsdb.com<\/span><\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<\/tbody>\n<\/table>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: helvetica\"><br \/><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: helvetica\">Once upon a time, I processed purchase orders for a large university.<br \/>\n We often made large dollar value purchases near the end of the fiscal<br \/>\nyear to spend all of our budgeted funds. One year, we purchased a<br \/>\nsoftware license early and I followed a template of a prior year&#8217;s<br \/>\npurchase on the order form. There was a &#8220;Notes&#8221; field that was usually<br \/>\nleft empty. In that field, I typed the next year &#8220;Fiscal Year 20XX&#8221; and<br \/>\nthought nothing more about it.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: helvetica\">A few days later, I noticed that the funds had been encumbered in<br \/>\nthe wrong account. Our purchasing department had read the field and<br \/>\ninterpreted that I had meant this order for a different account.<\/span><\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<blockquote><p><span style=\"font-family: helvetica\"><br \/>\n    This was a dastardly problem.<br \/>\n  <\/span><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: helvetica\">I could not change the purchase order, nor could I change funds<br \/>\nencumbered in the accounts. With the fiscal years changing, the accounts<br \/>\n were locked for transactions. The power to correct the order was not at<br \/>\n my level. As far as I knew, I had made a huge mistake. I went to my<br \/>\nboss to explain the problem.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: helvetica\">He said &#8220;Call Mr. So-and-so at the such-and-such office and ask to<br \/>\nhave a 1:1 appointment with him and then explain the problem to him just<br \/>\n like you did for me.&#8221; Now this was the equivalent of saying &#8216;G<i>o before a stranger, stab yourself, and bleed out until death takes your soul<\/i>.&#8217;<\/span><\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<blockquote><p><span style=\"font-family: helvetica\"><br \/>\n    Said another way, I was facing a dragon.<\/span><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: helvetica\">I could fully see this dragon before me. I could see the razor<br \/>\nsharp teeth, I could see the growing fire glow in the belly, and I could<br \/>\n contemplate the acid brewing in the stomach.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: helvetica\">Why did I take this problem so seriously? It was a monetary error <b>greater than my annual salary<\/b>.<br \/>\n I had committed a violation of one of my most closely held employment rules: Make yourself so valuable to an employer that it is cheaper to<br \/>\nkeep you than to fire you. Firing me at that point would be cheaper.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: helvetica\">On shaky legs, I walked into Mr. So-and-so&#8217;s office. I still<br \/>\nremember it. Big office. Polished wooden desk that glinted in the light.<br \/>\n I explained my problem.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: helvetica\">He said, &#8220;What account number is the money in?&#8221; I gave it to him.<br \/>\nTap tap tap on the keyboard. &#8220;What account number do you need the money<br \/>\nin?&#8221; I gave it to him. Tap tap tap on the keyboard.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: helvetica\">&#8220;There you go, all set. Anything else I can do for you today?&#8221; he said.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: helvetica\">&#8220;No, uh&#8230;that&#8217;s it.&#8221;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: helvetica\">Numbly, I walked out. Alive. With my job. Dragon slayed. What just happened?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: helvetica\">Over the years, I have had the chance to think a great deal about this story. I know now that:<\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><span style=\"font-family: helvetica\">Mr. So-and-so was literally the <b>only person on campus<\/b> who is authorized by the state to move funds account to account. Hence, <i>only <\/i><b><i>he<\/i><\/b><i> could solve my intractable problem.<\/i><\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-family: helvetica\">Likely his access was restricted to his office terminal. He could only do that transaction from his polished wooden desk. Hence <i>I had to <\/i><b><i>go<\/i><\/b><i> to his office.<\/i><\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-family: helvetica\">If my boss was reading me correctly, he knew the hardest part of what he had asked me to do was the first step: <b><i>ask<\/i><\/b><i> for help<\/i>.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: helvetica\">Lesson learned?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: helvetica\">When you are facing your big, fire-breathing dragon, it is often <b>not your job<\/b> to slay that dragon. <b><u>Your job is to find the Dragon Slayer.<\/u> <\/b> That person slays <i>that<\/i> particular dragon<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: helvetica\">all<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: helvetica\">day<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: helvetica\">long.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: helvetica\">And they get paid for it. And they think it&#8217;s no big deal.<\/span><\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<blockquote><p><span style=\"font-family: helvetica\"><br \/>\n    Repeat this to yourself:<br \/>\n  <\/span><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<blockquote><p><span style=\"font-family: helvetica\"><br \/>\n    Find the Dragon Slayer<br \/>\n  <\/span><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: helvetica\">I&#8217;ve met other dragon slayers over time. As a remote worker, I find<br \/>\n them most often when I&#8217;m eating fettuccine alfredo at some in-person<br \/>\nwork event, and I&#8217;m complaining about the biggest work problem in my<br \/>\nlife. A stranger from across the table will say, &#8220;Oh, I fix that all the<br \/>\n time. You just do this, this, and then this.&#8221; Picture me dropping my<br \/>\nfork, mouth wide open.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: helvetica\">Dragon slayer, thy name is&#8230;whoever you are on the other side of that table. You just saved my (work) life.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: helvetica\"><i>See the secret here is to realize that you are not alone.<\/i><br \/>\nThis is a connected leadership philosophy. I&#8217;ll write more about this in<br \/>\n the future, but here is a hint: Every time Jean-Luc Picard faced a<br \/>\ndifficult situation on the Enterprise, he&#8217;d turn off the view screen,<br \/>\nand turn to his team and say one word, &#8220;Options?&#8221; It&#8217;s a brilliant<br \/>\nleadership maneuver.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: helvetica\">Over time, I&#8217;ve become a Dragon Slayer myself. I can take care of<br \/>\nsome problems that cause others to fear. It&#8217;s pretty cool. I know<br \/>\nexactly how to do it. You just do this, this, and then this.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: helvetica\">Best of all, however, is that I share this Dragon-Slayer-Finding<br \/>\nPower with others when they come up against their intractable problems. I<br \/>\n share that polished wooden desk story to give them hope that finding a<br \/>\ndragon slayer starts with asking for help. It&#8217;s not so hard to ask for<br \/>\nhelp. The other steps come easily.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: helvetica\">When seeking Dragon Slayers while working remotely, I love to pick<br \/>\nup the phone and say to a colleague, &#8220;I know you faced this one. What<br \/>\ndid you do?&#8221;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: helvetica\">After our conversation, I thank them and hang up the phone, and whisper &#8220;Dragon Slayer.&#8221;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: helvetica\">#management #dragonslayer #leadershipphilosophy #reignoffire<br \/>\n#leader #manager #manage #workfromhome #remotework #remotemanagement<br \/>\n#onlinemanager #onlinemanagement #wfh #fear #asktheonlinemanager<br \/>\n#weareallconnected #intractable #problem #facingproblems<br \/>\n#startrekmanagement #askforhelp<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: helvetica\">Executive summary:<\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><span style=\"font-family: helvetica\">You are not destined to solve every problem you face.<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-family: helvetica\">Someone else regularly solves your problem.<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-family: helvetica\">Do not take on the problem head-on. Instead, find your problem solver.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: helvetica\">This post was updated on April 3, 2026 to improve the font and remove missing images.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<div>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<div class=\"entry-summary\">\n&nbsp; Reign of Fire. 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